For instance, you are notified that your significant other wants a divorce on Valentine’s Day!
What do you do next? Some people would say, seek counseling and see if your marriage can be saved. This is a great avenue to explore, the majority of marriages dissolve due to irreconcilable differences so its completely plausible that you and your significant other can get back on the same page to save your marriage. Other’s may say, beat your significant other the punch by filing suit first. Honestly, if a divorce proceeding is imminent, it doesn’t matter who files first, the process will be the same.
What is most important is that you are informed of what your rights are and what you are entitled to receive if that unfortunate day comes. Divorce is a horrible ordeal that takes a toll of the best of people but being properly equipped to handle the coming 6 months to a year of litigation that comes along with the divorce itself will provide peace of mind.
It is imperative that you speak with an attorney to learn what your rights are and how an attorney can help you navigate the legal system. Divorce is not easy, with the complex issues of custody, child support, spousal support, division of community property, etc. being involved it is a bit overwhelming. An attorney will provide you with the guidance you need to properly handle every aspect presented by a divorce proceeding.
And let’s face it, if your significant other really lets you know they are divorcing you on Valentine’s Day, you can bet your bottom dollar they’re serious about it and you should be too.
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